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The “Not My Fault” Healing Guide

When something ends painfully, the mind looks for control — and control often disguises itself as blame.
You replay the past, dissect every detail, and wonder what you could’ve done differently.
But self-blame doesn’t bring peace — it just keeps you anchored to pain.

The “Not My Fault” Healing Guide helps you lay that weight down.
Through reflection, gentle exercises & psychological insight, you’ll learn how to stop confusing guilt with growth.
You’ll understand what was yours to take responsibility for — and what never was.
Because you can’t heal while carrying responsibility for someone else’s choices.

You might be here because…

  • You’re caught in loops of guilt, self-blame or regret.

  • You feel responsible for how someone else acted or ended things.

  • You want to forgive yourself but don’t know where to start.

  • You’re ready to feel lighter, freer & at peace again.

What if you had…

  • A 5-part process to untangle guilt from growth.

  • Tools to calm self-critical thoughts & rebuild self-trust.

  • Guided reflections that transform blame into understanding.

  • A ritual for forgiveness that closes the loop of shame & opens space for healing.

That’s what The “Not My Fault” Healing Guide offers — a steady, heart-grounded pathway out of self-blame and into emotional freedom.


🌿 What’s Inside

Five healing chapters:

  1. The Weight of Self-Blame — why we take on what isn’t ours to carry.

  2. Guilt vs Responsibility — learning to own your part, not their choices.

  3. The Inner Critic & the Wounded Self — softening the voice that punishes you.

  4. Reframing the Story — retelling the past without distortion or shame.

  5. Forgiving Yourself for What Wasn’t Yours — choosing peace over punishment.

Includes exercises, reflection prompts & healing rituals, such as:

  • Laying Down the Weight — a symbolic release of guilt & heaviness.

  • Sorting the Truth — what’s truly yours vs what belongs to them.

  • Meeting Your Inner Voice — transforming self-criticism into compassion.

  • The Truth Rewrite — reframing your story through self-understanding.

  • The Self-Forgiveness Ritual — letting go of pain that was never yours to carry.


💛 Why This Matters

You didn’t cause the pain that hurt you — but you can stop carrying it.
This guide helps you release misplaced guilt & reclaim your peace with truth and compassion.
Because healing isn’t about proving your innocence — it’s about remembering your wholeness.


Take Your Next Step

Set down the weight with The “Not My Fault” Healing Guide.
Available now for $11 USD (around £8 GBP / $17 AUD).

Because you were never meant to carry both the heartbreak and the blame.

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